{"id":414,"date":"2021-08-01T17:07:15","date_gmt":"2021-08-01T15:07:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/?p=414"},"modified":"2021-08-01T17:16:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-01T15:16:39","slug":"there-is-no-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/medical\/414\/","title":{"rendered":"There is no way&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8230;to die of cancer<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">32 months<br \/>\nAnd there is no way<br \/>\nto die of cancer when<br \/>\nyour mother asks you to wait<br \/>\nuntil she dies<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">There is also no way<br \/>\nfor both mother and son to<br \/>\nsimultaneously<br \/>\ndie of cancer<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Yet you showed me your way<br \/>\n32 months<br \/>\nand how grateful I am<br \/>\nthat you did<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">That you could make dying<br \/>\nlook like living. I<br \/>\nalmost forgot we were<br \/>\nsaying goodbye, despite<br \/>\nhow often I ended up<br \/>\nsaying hello to you<br \/>\nAgain<br \/>\nAt your hospital bed<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">That you gave me the chance<br \/>\n32 months<br \/>\nto accompany you<br \/>\nThat you made it easier<br \/>\nfor me, despite your own<br \/>\npain. Kept reminding me<br \/>\nthat we were doing<br \/>\nour best, despite<br \/>\nall the setbacks<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Thank you. For<br \/>\n32 months<br \/>\nthanking us so often<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Dying people do not<br \/>\nthank their surgeons<br \/>\noften<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">***<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">There is no way<br \/>\nto ask a dying man about<br \/>\nhis dying mother. Is it<br \/>\ncruel<br \/>\nto hope you didn&#8217;t break your promise<br \/>\n32 months<br \/>\nto her? To hope you<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t die<br \/>\nwith such a burden?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">And there is still no way<br \/>\nto say goodbye<br \/>\nto a very<br \/>\nfamiliar stranger.\u00a0 But<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">fighter, fighter, beautiful-<br \/>\nsouled, ever-<br \/>\nsmiling, ever-<br \/>\ngrateful soldier, you<br \/>\n32 months<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">are scarred on your<br \/>\nsurgeons&#8217; hearts<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">RIP FK<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;to die of cancer 32 months And there is no way to die of cancer when your mother asks you to wait until she dies [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,3,5,75],"tags":[82,81,30,83],"class_list":["post-414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all","category-medical","category-poetry","category-writing","tag-cancer","tag-death","tag-family","tag-gratitude"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=414"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/414\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":434,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/414\/revisions\/434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yetunde-siemers.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}